The Beauty of Children

Children aren’t born to discriminate, they are not born to be prejudiced.  It’s taught.

Children are born with beautiful souls and beautiful minds, that are inquisitive about the world around them.

Social education for parents is often about behaviours and boundaries within their society, but it’s deeper than that. Discrimination stems from naivety of our differences, predominantly from the adults around us making presumptions and stereotyping. But it’s our differences give us our individuality.

It is our job as parents to teach our children the power of our differences, educate them in understanding others, and consequently, as I found out this weekend our children will naturally want to learn more about the people around them.

I am blessed my daughter; Little Miss 5 has proved her kind self this weekend, she made a friend named  ‘I’ at the caravan.

‘I’ is a beautiful girl, well mannered and full of charisma, she has a smile that could light up the world, and such a contagious laugh that made your own belly hurt just from hearing it! This same beautiful girl, also has a brain tumour and is severely visually impaired.

However, nothing can came between this pair’s friendship.

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They laughed together, danced and sang together, played together, shared toys and swapped toys together.

 

Little Miss 5 showed great patience as she taught ‘I’ to play snakes & ladders (large scale), while the young girl taught my daughter the true meaning of laughter, fun & friendships.

Little Miss 5, found a caterpillar and realising ‘I’ may not be able to see it, she picked it up and placed it on ‘I’s hand, ‘I’ giggled as the caterpillar crawled over her hand and said she’d never felt one before. What a lovely experience for the girls to share, one I hope they both will remember forever!

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The girls were inseparable for the entire weekend and have even swapped addresses, ‘I’ says she’s going to write a letter in Braille to Little Miss 5 (to be translated by her teacher) & Little Miss 5 will write a letter to ‘I’ (which her mum or Nana will read to her).

Little Miss 5 now wants to learn Braille too! She has her first basic braille book. 🙂

I cannot even imagine the journey ‘I’s been on over her short little 6 years, I hope one day I get to meet the mother of this truly courageous and inspirational young girl.  Meanwhile, we wish her all the best for the future and look forward to hearing from her soon!

Hopefully I can rest in the knowledge that I have given Little Miss 5 a good understanding of equality and that instead of discriminating continues to naturally embrace the learning opportunities that arise from her social interactions, to enable her to build wonderful relationships with all who cross her path as indeed she did this weekend!

So proud of both these kind-hearted souls ❤️

Jack and the beanstalk

Today we woke up to a letter from the giant:

Little Miss 5 was so excited, the letter was huge, from floor to ceiling , her face was a picture.

This is how it came together:

I filled mini bags with jelly beans and simply printed a label that said ‘edible magic beans’, I did enough for all her friends at school as Jack and the Beanstalk is their current core story.

I had bought new gardening tools for her, as well as beans to plant and pots-I put dots on the beans which corresponds to the numbers I put on the pots I made golden eggs by painting foam eggs I bought from a craft store, I found the paint went on easier if I papier-mâchéd them first, I also papier-mâchéd a ballon too for a large golden egg-which cracked dramatically under the great British heat we’ve had over the last few days! Luckily I managed to patch it up!

I had purchased a plastic ivy plant from Amazon, plastic golden coins as well as chocolate coins (I couldn’t resist), made a harp & large footprints out of cardboard, there you have it!

So we set to work on the giants requests straight away, as the magic bean treasure was irresistible!

we planted the beans.

we had an outdoor puppet show, where little miss 5 was able to retell the story-we used the same props. She even wanted to make us tickets

Little Miss 5, then measured her toys against the giants foot prints

There is so much home learning that can be done, just by knowing what core story your child is reading at school, and it’s not ‘boring’ or ‘homework’ as such, just quality learning experiences, in a fun way, but mostly it’s about spending quality time together!

Needless to say, we ended the day with a Jack and the Beanstalk tub-time and quite simply moved the props to the bathroom! Obviously reading the story several times too!

Little Miss 5 has a splashing time!

Slime Saturday

When your plans change or the weather’s bad, simply make some slime, an open ended malleable product which lets your children’s imagination flow, and their fine motor skills develop!

I haven’t made it for a while, so today was perfect, my children then added various small-world toys to the mix such as Lego etc, oh my, they have had hours of fun!

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If you wish to make some the ingredients are below, adult supervision is highly recommended!

3floz of Elmer’s glue

Food colouring

Tsp baking soda

Mix thoroughly then gradually add

Optrex, mixing and kneading until you have the perfect consistency. Store in an airtight container and it will last for a while! 👍🏻😁

To make the rainbow 🌈 slime, you’ll need 6 lots of this recipe! My preferred food colouring to use is paste rather than gels or liquids as they are more vibrant.

                           

Digesting headlines

How much attention do your children pay to the news?

Do you think it’s important?

Growing up, I was never really interested in what was going on in the world, but as a parent I think it’s important that some news stories are relevant for our young ones.

My son has been receiving The Week Junior, for about a year now, it really simplifies news for them and great if your child is into fascinating facts! It is easy to read with plenty of pictures and entertaining headlines too.

This was our favourite article this week so to celebrate this great discovery we made Oreo penguins!-so simple (although ever so unhealthy)

1) dunk your Oreo in melted chocolate

2) stick on a large white button for its tummy, some edible eyes & half a skittle for it’s beak.

3) place in the fridge to set

4) Eat & enjoy!!

Making news fun……….and digestible!

Anti-bullying

First day of term and the breakfast table conversations are about reflecting on last term, what we hope to achieve this term, and our behaviours which influence our social circles.

I gave the children a plain piece of paper and told them to screw it up, I then asked them to flatten it out as much as they could…..we spoke about how the paper creases would not go away, similar to if we hurt our peers, as much as we can say sorry, the memories and scars will always be there.

I then gave them a toothpaste tube each and told them to squeeze as much out as they could……then, I gave them a spoon and told them to put the toothpaste back in the tube…..obviously they couldn’t. We compared this to the things we say, if we say unkind words, we cannot un-say them or take them back.

I do this every term with my children to reiterate the impact of our actions and words on our social circles.

Please share to support anti-bullying!

Trick or treat or not??

 I’m all up for Christmas, elves, fairy lights and tinsel tack,  but when it comes to Halloween, well, trick or  moreso, I’m a bit of a Scrooge to be honest, for several reasons really; firstly I don’t find fun or see the point in scaring people, secondly I don’t mind opening the door & handing out sweets but I don’t feel comfortable taking my own children out asking other people for sweets, almost like begging, just don’t get it? & thirdly, sweets. Need I say more. 

However, we do celebrate pumpkins.  Carving pumpkins is fantastic activity to support those early literacy, fine motor skills!! 

And love a good Pumpin soup, baked in the actual pumpkin, with warm rolls and roasted pumpkin seeds. 

Pumpkin day is our Halloween! 

The Little Red Hen

Shorter days, dark evenings, orange leaves, can only mean one thing-Autumn! 

With Autumn, comes Harvest! How many of your children are learning about Harvest at school? Generally Harvest is about thanking the lord for crops and so forth, however, I am not religious, but I do see it as a good opportunity to teach my children about counting their blessings and recognising all things good in our lives! 

Anyway…..

For Miss 4, we read The Little Red Hen (lots!), we have a couple of versions with different endings, our favourite being the one where the Little Red Hen shares her bread with the baker and the miller as they helped her, thus showing kind morals. 

This year I decided to really ‘topic’ it in our family home and yes, it started with a tub-time! A little bit of red food colouring in the water to emphasise the colour.

Foam letters are brilliant for story titles & repeatitive refrains, supporting early literacy skills, if you don’t have any, craft foam is amazing! A couple of bunches of corn to add effect, and to add a sensory approach. 

Laminated copies of relevant pages, enough to prompt the story sequence. A few Schleich figures of the animals from the story, so Miss 4 can retell the story. Laminated story characters (an alternative to Schleich figures) and of course, the book. 

Needless to say, little Miss 4 did not want to get out the bath!! 

We then took a family trip to Bircham Windmill in Norfolk.


 A lovely, family run windmill, with tea rooms, shop, farm animals, 


dairy, interactive museum, not to mention the scrumptious smell in the bakery!! 


But the main reason for us visiting, is the opportunity for children to bake their own loaf of bread, a great, realistic experience for a 4year old to understand that bread and cakes, and milk and cheese do not just come from Tesco’s! 

A fantastic, educational but fun day out and quality time together as a family!! 

Our bedtime read that night, you guessed it, was the Little Red Hen. 

Having a daughter, that is very much into her drama, the laminated characters I used for Miss 4’s bath previously, I then backed with a lollipop stick to turn them into puppets, low and behold, being one of our favourite stories, little Miss 4 was able to retell the story using her puppets. She made us tickets from scrap paper and we even had to ‘buy’ popcorn! 

Laminated puppet theatre-Such a simple, yet effective way, for children to develop their attention and recall skills! 

I then found a simple bread recipe, (with pictures so Miss 4 could follow the directions)

 and together we baked some bread rolls for her friends at school, as it just so happens to be the book they are reading at school for Harvest too!

I love little Miss 4’s enjoyment when we bake together, measuring the ingredients, mixing & kneading, so much learning, whilst having great fun, not to mention dancing to the radio! 

Huge, huge learning opportunities from just one story! 

Many of my posts mention learning and development aspects, I am by no means a ‘pushy’ parent, I strongly believe children learn from the interactions their environment presents to them, as a parent you have so much control over this and I merely aim to show you how easy it is to make it fun, so children don’t even realise they are learning! In the process you have fun too! 

Children are sponges so feed them as much as you can whilst they are still little. It’s not about them being the cleverest in their class, it’s about them recognising their abilities, consequently gaining confidence to explore, make mistakes and find their ‘niche’. 

School’s Out

So, I’m back! After a crazy term & a huge confidence knock, I’ve been reluctant to post. 

But now, it’s the holidays, I’m here again and boy, I have missed this!

So if you’re in the U.K., school’s out for summer. What are we all doing with our children?? 

I organised a walking bus from school to our house, where I provided; water bombs, lots of cardboard boxes for bases & some cheap pound-shop Nerfs. Oh my, I never seen a bunch of 8year olds have so much fun, I could’ve of easily sat back with a cuppa & let them entertain themselves, but, no way, being the biggest kid of the bunch, I joined in too! 

Then for tea, it was pizzas & moctails, ice cream factory & milkshakes. 

When the children are running past you screaming ‘this is the best party ever’! & ‘can we do it again soon’! You know it was a successful evening!!
Another £1 shop purchase was a game called mumbo jumbo, a children’s version of Big Mouth! This also went down a treat, needless to say, endless laughter and hopefully lots of happy memories!

We finished off the evening with a film and popcorn! 

It just goes to show, you don’t need to spend a fortune for a good time! 

Three Little Pigs

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A few days at home together, and the children begged to go to the library, we returned with a themed selection of books Miss 4 chose.

 

 

So, the next couple of days we had lots of 3 Little Pig related fun.  How a simple, traditional fairytale can be brought to life.

We began by lunch: sticks, straw, bricks and cement, aka; Pepperami, cheese strings, thins and butter and jam. Not by any means suggesting we play with our food, but it was fun!

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Tub time, consisted of pink water, foam pigs and wolf on the tiles, a straw house made of drinking straws, a stick house made of lolly sticks and a brick house made of lego, not forgetting laminated parts of the story, to support  Miss 4 in story sequencing.

Needless to say, Little Miss 4 had a whale of a time, as I read the story while she bathed. She then used the story sequencing cards and put them in order. Then rein-acted the whole story herself, huffing and puffing at the houses!

Tub-times in our house are so much fun!

This morning greeted Little Miss 4 with a word hunt, I chose 9 words that were familiar in the Three Little Pigs story, and wrote out each word 3 or 4 times on post-its which I hid around the house, Miss 4 had to find them and read them aloud (if she could), before placing them on her clip board.  Little Miss 4, is ready for this literacy challenge and is quite good at sight reading, however you could always do picture, phonics or number hunts too.

 

Being such a glorious day, the afternoon found us in the garden, trying to build the pigs’ houses out of straw, sticks and bricks.  It was interesting watching little Miss 4 struggle to actually ‘build’ with straw and lift the heavy bricks and so on. I think this experience really brought the story story to life and enhanced Miss 4s understanding of the properties of different materials.

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I must say, we’ve had a truly fabulous couple of days making memories together.  Sharing books is such a lovely warming experience in itself, bringing them to life is something else entirely!

So….what’s the story?

World Book day!🌍📚

I know, as a parent we can be extremely busy, & as much as I’m all up for making costumes, I respect this isn’t everyone’s cup of tea.

However, it’s world BOOK day, so before you go out and buy a random costume off the supermarket shelf, think about the books you actually read with your children, the ones your children know well!

Some children don’t even enjoy dressing up-keep it simple, there’s no competition for parent of the year award, best homemade costume etc, it’s about your child & installing a love for books. 

Bought costumes can get expensive, especially with multiple children, look around at household items you could use, and papier-mâché is the cheapest most valuable resource you could ever use! 


This was my son a couple of years ago as R2 D2-an adults white t-shirt, a few felt tips & a plastic mixing bowl! Cost=nil! 

Another year he was The snail & The Whale-must dig out those photos, absolutely phenomenal use of paper mâché!

This year Mr 8 (a huge book worm!) is Frodo Baggins from Lord of The Rings, and yes, he has actually read the books! (I hang my head in shame as I have not!)


A cheap eBay costume, with made accessories-paper-mâché feet with artificial hair. Homemade sword, again, paper-mâché & tin foil. 

Miss 4 wants to be Matilda, no it’s not a book she’s read herself, but it’s a book we read together of which she has a profound understanding and passion for. 


This costume was by far the most simple, I didn’t choose for her to be Matilda for the simplicity of the costume, in fact, that’s my point, I didn’t choose at all-it came from her. I simply assisted in putting the costume together.

So ask your children, what they would like to be for World Book day? What is their favourite book? Who’s their favourite character? 

Early literacy is so important, how often do you read with your child? Enough? How often is enough? 

I never read growing up, didn’t enjoy it at all, still don’t particularly, however as a mum and a nursery manager I recognise & understand the importance of reading with children. I’ve therefore always made a concerted effort to read to my children at least once a day, and as my first born got into Roald Dahl, so did I! 

Both my children could read and write pre-school, both my husband and I are busy people, work full-time, & not really readers, so why? I genuinely believe it is because I’ve read to them daily from the day they were born! 

So, if there’s one thing to do with your child on a busy working day-Read together.

World Book Day is almost like a religious festival in our house, don’t leave it until Wednesday night, get organised, make use of February half term-after all paper-mâché takes time to dry! It should be a fun occasion to share with your children not stressful!